Explaining the lifestyle to family

I was just curious.  Has anyone ever had to explain their lifestyle to their children, or parents?   How did you explain it?  What was their reaction?

Male Chastity

Its been a few weeks since my last post and I felt this was a story that warranted discussion.  The other day a close friend of mine had some questions about male chastity.  Full disclosure: He knows about my lifestyle, he is married but is not in a Female led relationship, nor is a bull.  He considers himself and average Joe.  It took me awhile to open up to him about being in a chastity device.  Its not because I am ashamed, its because I felt he wouldn't be able to understand why.  I told him awhile back, he brushed it off, but the other day he brought it up again
    Why? He asked me.  "I just don't get it" he said    I tried to explain to him that it was my wife's choice to put me in chastity to curb my constant jerking off since being cucked.   I explained how now my focus is on her pleasure not mine.  Yes I could break the lock, but I choose not to.  I need to show her the devotion she needs to see from me.
   I continued my reasoning, but I think it just went over his head.   Everything I said makes perfect sense to a cuckold, but falls on deaf ears to someone outside the lifestyle.  Has anyone else tried to explain things they do to please their wife to someone outside the lifestyle?

The ultimate reward

This is a topic that came up over the weekend with a friend of mine who is cuckold as well.  To give a bit of backstory, Janet wanted us to have a some friends in the lifestyle, so we have met some couples around our age and we go out from time to time.  Saturday night we are out with a couple, Tessa and Steven.  A fun mid 40s couple who have been in the cuckold lifestyle for at least 15 years.  Like most cuckold relationships theirs has evolved as well.  Steven no longer has sex with Tessa and he couldn't be happier.  As most cucks his pleasure comes from seeing his wife with other.
     The question came up after dinner over drinks as the ladies were chatting, he and I started talking about different aspects of our sexual lives.  What is the ultimate reward you can receive from your wife?  Disclaimer: Intercourse is out.  A Blowjob is out.  Steven said when he is done with chores, nothing is greater than having free time  such as  watching shows he wants to watch, or checking out stuff on the internet.   I was blown away….  Really?  I said  My response was since I invest so much time into my wife.  Loving how much of her sexual life has become my focus, my ultimate reward is a cream pie.   My reward serves multiple purposes for me,  1. I get to be apart of her sex life. 2. I get to lick my wife's beautiful pussy.  3. I get to taste the creamy cum left over.

Anyway, Thats my ultimate reward….whats yours?

Chastity, Femme wear, and Sucking cock

When I first accepted my new role in the cuckold lifestyle 5 years ago, I simply thought that occasionally would get to watch my wife with her lover, jerk off, lap up a nice cream pie, and be done with it. I was, lets just say, clueless.   It started simple, my wife wanted me to wear panties while I watched.  That was fine I thought, to be honest I loved the feel of them  Felt nice on my skin.  Next came she wanted me to shave off all body hair, she told me it was unattractive and she never liked it.  Sure I thought, I run marathons and swim as well, I could get away it.  Started shaving everything, and once you do you can't stop.
    About a year and a half ago chastity discussion came up.  I didn't want it at all, but she felt my jerking off got to be a bit much and she wanted to control it.  Soon I was locked up. This took a lot of getting use to.  You learn you have to sit to pee and you learn that every little thing about your wife will turn you on.  I must have looked like a little puppy following her around all the time.  Occasionally, depending on my behavior I am let out to have a "free" day, but if she is with a lover that night, I have to go back in the cage.  I am allowed to cum using a vibrator, never thought that could happen.
    Sucking cock.  If you asked me 6 years ago that I would suck a cock, I would tell you that you have lost your mind.   Years into my focus would shift from watching my wife, to watching the bull.  His massive cock, his strong sexual ability.  It fascinated me.  I think my wife noticed me looking and focusing on him, she wanted me to suck her lover.  Now of the two only one would let this happen.  My first time, I gagged, my eyes teared up, I was horrible and he let me know about it.   Over the next few weeks my wife gave me pointers, what to do, and soon I was sucking cock like a pro.  Some will say I'm disgusting, or make nasty comments.  My response is if your a true cuck and you want to make your wife happy, you WOULD do this for her.  It pleases my wife and it pleases me too.

As my wife says….Its not Gay, its a show of respect.

James

My First Post or How I became who I am

My very first blog post. This is liberating.  I am now sharing with the world my venture into the cuckold lifestyle.  First let me tell you a little about me.
     My name is James.  I am 42 years old and married to an amazing woman, Janet.  We have been married 17 years.  We grew up high school sweethearts.  When I first met her I was in love.  Strong, confident, athletic, a bit sassy…..whats not to love.  We married after college and soon had our one and only daughter.
     I will skip ahead some years till about 6 years ago.   I thought everything was going well, I mean we fought like most married couples do, but we got on.  Janet has always been are more dominant woman, but I was use to that.  Then I got the news that shocked my life.  Janet was having an affair.  I was instantly heartbroken.  All the questions flooded my mind  Who? Why? How?  I think I reacted like any man would and I packed up my stuff and moved out.  Many nights I cried myself to sleep wondering what I would do.  Every time I thought about it I came back to the same conclusion, I couldn't leave my wife.  We started talking again, neither one of us wanted a divorce.   We decided I would come back home, but under one condition…..the affair would continue.
     She told me she needed it.  It's a hard pill to swallow at first when you hear you cannot satisfy your wife in bed, but you learn to accept that.  She would leave the house for dates, I would never ask what transpired, but I was so curious.  Soon  I started asking questions when she would get home.  Time after time, I became more curious, and honestly more turned on.   She came home one time and of course I asked what happened, and she didn't say a word.  I followed her into the bedroom, begging.  She just stopped, stripped and said  let me show you.  Climbing on the bed she showed me a messy cream pie.  I got on the bed and she guided me down to lick her pussy. MY FIRST CREAMPIE.  Now I was hooked.
    Soon after the affair ended.  He ended it.  My Janet wasn't happy anymore.  I knew it affected her.  Hated seeing her like that.  She looked into cuckolding and I agreed.  Soon she was interviewing potential bulls.  She would meet some, date, but never really worked out.  That is until she met her two current guys.  Both are a bit older at 43 and 45.  Both are single and consider her as their girlfriend.  She has been with both for about a year and a half.  She is never ever with them both at the same time.  She splits her time between the two.  They both know about each other and are ok with it.  Basically  neither has time really for a relationship full time, so it is convenient for them as well.
     One of her boyfriends, Mike, does not care to be with her in front of me.  He will sometimes, but mostly they go out and have sex at his place.  Curtis, her other bf, loves being with her in front of me.  I think he loves humiliating me a bit too, which is fine with me as well.   He loves when I dress up femme, and loves when she dominates me as well.
     I will get into more detail as the blog continues.  I just wanted to introduce myself and explain my experience.  To all who read, thanks for reading.

James